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ChaseLife with Kelly


Nov 29, 2021

Today’s episode was inspired by a conversation with someone very close to me. I know you will be able to relate. Whether you are in a relationship, or single, you can be navigating hardships and heartaches. You see, I used to find it so challenging when it came to letting go, particularly with men. Thankfully, what I’ve learned, and what I invite you to learn as well, is that the more I shift my mindset to abundance, gratitude and growth - it doesn’t take me as long to let go of things anymore. The more I do this, the easier it is to align myself to the person that I want and desire. Anything that isn’t that, I don’t align with. I am happily able to let go of that someone, or something.

  • Align Yourself to New people and New Energy [3:31]

If you don’t like your current situation, obviously it’s time to let go. But if you're in a relationship - work on it first. Don’t just surrender and throw in the towel. ”

  • Fear of Loss vs. Fear of Happiness [5:30]

We fear loss in fear of being happy. We stay single/stuck in a relationship because we are afraid to be happy.”

  • There is Always Going to be Pain and Hurt [8:49]

There is always gonna be the duality - pain and pleasure. Acknowledge the pain it’s gonna create and work through it.”

  • Are You in a Position to Have Love Right Now? [10:25]

How am I not showing up for myself today?” 

  • Tune In to You [13:00]

Embrace the fear, so that you can learn a lesson and get to the other side of it.”
“That person who should come, should only compliment you and not complete you.”

  • Keep Aligning to Who You Are and Who You Want to Become [14:15]

That next level version of you, who is she?”

  • Hurt People hurt people, Free People free people [15:50]

Audit yourself now, tune into your messes, insecurities etc. in order to start showing up differently.” 

  • Stand Up for Yourself [17:48]

If they’re not showing up for themselves the way that you like, you have the power to let them go.”

  • Be Strong in Your Boundaries [18:45]

I love you, but I love myself more.” 

  • Get Really in Alignment and Excited About What You’re Wanting [23::13]

No more self-sabotaging, just keep focusing on yourself.” 



Remember, if you keep thinking or saying what you don’t want, you’re only going to keep attracting them. Shift to abundance, positivity, possibility and gratitude. If you love this episode let me know and send me a message on instagram! I want to lead you to become more confident and create the life you crave! I want to help you shift your mindset, so that you are showing up as the highest version of yourself!



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